16 January, 2009

That Boy (3)

Hey people, go read up title: "Takes a weirdo to understand weird" at this blog: http://disorderofnovil.blogspot.com/ . and the comments too. My comment on that post was : (go-i always tried to be friends with everyone which includes carfer. Since foundation, i heard ppl say him weirdo, people attacking him, say he pasar malam guy, but i did try to be nice. I didnt know and never noticed that he treated me cold or tried to ignore me until what he wrote in my blog. Even till degree first yr..2nd yr.. he did irritate me, he sent msn and sms msg to me, about sorry things and sometimes harsh things, (he being ironic), i did not reply, totally ignored until when he say wanna be friends back i think last year. So out of kindness, friends better than enemy i say ok la, friends la, then again rude and harsh words from him. It did not hurt me becuase i dont care but of course annoyed me la.
-I treated him as friend OKAY ppl??? and now onwards, i do not F***KING care about this anymore k!! I never say harsh word and i'm so sorry for saying it here. You know how pissed off am i!!!)

To people that are neutral, being nice and care for him: Glad that you guys are so kind and are there to help him. Hope he will actually grow and understand everything and appreciate you guys and not the way he treated me which is so annoying. Peace everyone!

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

lol.. triny use F word liao.. can see how pissed off u feel.. carfer really weirdo

Unknown said...

wah? relax relax, no point getting pissed off by retards ya :D *huggies*

tRiNy~ said...

JK: hehe .. yea lo .. too annoying already la.

Daniel: Hehe, thanks for the hug! *winks

Anonymous said...

Dim Gai Carfer comment removed zo geh ? *sob sob* ...

CCFE said...

Quote from Triny: ‘i really wanna show you guys the sms that he sent, i kept it for a while so that i can have it as prove, but i just dont want to have rubbish and nonsence in my hp. I shouldnt have deleted it, cz i can prove that he is being so ironic. He said sorry before, want to be friends again before, he admitted right? i say ok be friends.’


Triny, actually, I archived those apology smses partially… the first (1/4) and second (2/4) are summary of each messages, whereas the third (3/4) and fourth (4/4) parts are complete and absolutely the same as what I sent to you. I hereby swear in the name of God, the Malaysia Constitution and the Malaysian Flag that what I am leaking out is the absolute truth and contains no part of fakeness.

1/4
Sorry, Ching sze.
I admit that I purposely induced conflicts,
Purposely created and magnified misunderstandings
ever since foundation

2/4
I felt sorry to you.
I hope you understand I am not trying to pursue you.
I thought you were treating me as nice as you treat others
since foundation
I am conservative, and couldn’t accept your open-mindedness.
I was being bullied by girls since primary school and I am
not used to be treated so nice by girls

3/4
I did believe love in the first sight. And on my first sight to
H.W.Leng, my instinct and feelings on this person is so special that I could still remember how it all happened till this day. On the other hand, the first time I saw you, was in corridor, and when you opened the door, I thought that ‘I would not be able to be intimate with this person’.
Sorry Ching Sze.

4/4
Hope that after this long I wrote, you would understand me and my stance more. Actually you are the first girl who will say ‘sorry’ o me. Remember? You scolded me loudly in DK1 when I asked if you were spreading the accusation that I wanted to chase you. You then apologized when you drove me to your father’s friend house for ‘electronic tuition’. You are very good to me despite I treated you as coldly as I could. I’m wrong, and I’ll try to treat you better and greet you.



This girl named H.W.Leng is the girl that I liked ever since the first glance, and that was 8 years ago, till today. Triny, you are really no match to her. You two are of different kinds.

You like to show off, by becoming ‘calendar girl’, ‘UTAR singing competition’, ‘PC fair model+promoter’. In contrary, HWL would perform in Chinese orchestras by playing her “柳琴” ‘liu qin’, a kind of “琵琶” ‘Chinese guitar’ ‘Pipa’, showing her inner beauty with rich Chinese cultural value. Her Chinese knowledge is very deep, and she could understand my poems written in ‘ancient Chinese style’ “文言文”.

You are uncouth and clumsy “粗鲁”. HWL is very gentle “温柔”.

You like rock and roll, metal and brass style of music, and will dance with it, as seen, when you followed the songs that praises your Lord. HWL likes soft music, and Chinese classical music “中华古典音乐”.

There are so many differences between you and HWL, and no part of you could let me recall her softness. I am actually quite lazy to even care about you, and last time, I greeted you while I saw you is due to manners, as I promised*, to greet you when I saw you. (*the last sentence in the 4/4 sms)






And Livon, you actually misunderstood me quite often, as seen in your 1 to 5 statements.

The first case, I was actually looking at the condenser of the distilling machine that I had never seen before. Maybe you are not interested in this kind of machine, but I am. I am always curious on how machine works and I read a lot of articles in ‘www.howstuffworks.com’, ‘en.wikipedia.org’, ‘www.tomshardware.com’, different versions of encyclopedias in Chinese titled “十万个为什么” or ‘hundred thousand of why (physics 1,2 ; chemistry 1,2 ; geography, astronomy, animal )’, encyclopedias, ‘Popular Science’ magazine and etcetera. I appreciate the hard work and hard times spent by scientists and engineers to develop and design the machineries, including the distilling machine.

The second case, I didn’t simply assume people like me. I will actually prefer to believe a girl really hates me than liking me.

The third case. I remember that time during foundation. The actual movie hasn’t started yet, but all in the screen was advertisements. Why wouldn’t you choose a better seat if you have the opportunity, as most of the seats in the cinema were empty, and the movie hasn’t started yet?

The fourth case. I lived in TBR that time, and I have no means of transport except my legs. It would be a 20 minutes journey purely walking to the Wangsa Maju LRT station, not including time needed to wait for LRT, which varies from 5 minutes to 10 minutes. The journey would take the train approximately 5 minutes, as you said, to reach the next station, which is the Taman Melawati station. Geographically, TBR is situated in between the two stations, therefore I chose to walk to Taman Melawati Station in 25 minutes.

The fifth case. Well, I don’t really know people like to “chui shui” “吹水” ‘blow water’ so much la.. I’ll take note of that.


To Mr. Neo T.S., and Mr. Tiong J.X., and Mr. C.J.K., if you think I am retarded and should live in a cave, well, I am now telling you that I am so concentrated and devoted to scientific and technological innovations, inventions, advancements and improvements, and virtually neglected forms of entertainments of layman like three of you, such as karaoke, songs, music, dramas, online games, and action movies.

For Mr. Tiong’s information, the most advanced technology currently (top secret planes, machines) is actually kept in CAVES and UNDERGROUND military bases in USA, such as Area 51 in Nevada. The particle accelerator which was a hit in news recently, named CERN, is also located in underground of France and Switzerland. Nuclear Fallout Shelter, which will be an operational base in the case of Nuclear Warfare, is also situated deep in a cave, visualized in the ending of the movie ‘Terminator 3’. Nuclear silos, if you understand what it means, are facilities located in underground. Cave men are technologically inferior to you? What a joke.

Mr. Neo, a modem is not magical but logical. It is only magical to those laymen who think that inventions are actually popped up magically. And, technically, a magic is just a trick, which can be proven scientifically.

tRiNy~ said...

carfer carfer, since you have such a broad knowledge and is so updated about the technologies advancement, i hope to see you as a real scienties and CONTRIBUTE to the society one day. and by the way, my bf know the girl you likes longer than you know her if she is from catholic high. go boy for you dream girl, good luck!

Erica Mitchel said...

omgggg....
cafer...
the way u wrote all those msges as if triny is really into u and u r trying to avoid her...
ur msg really sound like she is chasing after u while u r trying to ignore her....
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz caferrrrrr....
try to open ur eyes widely...
she is with calvin now...
and they are happy together....


On the other hand, the first time I saw you, was in corridor, and when you opened the door, I thought that ‘I would not be able to be intimate with this person’.
Sorry Ching Sze.


this is what u felt when the first time u saw triny right...
but y still u wanna talk and even be a friend to her at the first place...
y wont u avoid her at the first place if u already knew that u cant socialise with her....
and y did u agreed to follow here to her dad's electronics tuition...
u see cafer...
are u trying to be nice or pretending to be nice????...

and cafer...
HWL and triny are totally 2 different person....
y are u comparing HWL with triny...
is not like triny got to do anything bout HWL right....
triny does not even know HWL...
what is ur real intention by differentiating triny with HWL...
triny might be clumsy, noisy, loud, show off and uncouth to u..
but that does not means u have to campare her with HWL...
y dont u compare ur self with her...

u know cafer...
everybody are speacial in their own ways including u right...
triny might be everything u wrote in ur msg but atleast she does not annoy people and most importantly...
she makes calvin, me, and her other friends happy....
do u make other people happy???.....do you??....

sorry if i sound harsh..
but triny is my friend..
n i'll stand up for her...

CCFE said...

I hereby swear in the name of God, the Malaysia Constitution and the Malaysian Flag that what I am leaking out is the absolute truth and contains no part of fakeness.


To: Mr. I Wrote This...
"but y still u wanna talk and even be a friend to her at the first place..."

No, your statement is wrong.
On the third day ever since the university started operations, Ngu Ching Sze actually asked Chiang Xin Yi who was beside her, to ask me, who was sitting next to xinyi, what course am i in.

few days later, when i chose to sit in the front second row in the lecture room PA146, UTAR, Petaling Jaya, Selangor, NCS opened the door and came in, and sat beside me. She even requested me to leave the place beside me for her for every lecture.

"y wont u avoid her at the first place if u already knew that u cant socialise with her...."
It would be far too rude if a girl come to sit beside you and then asks you alot of things, while you keep your mouth shut.


"and y did u agreed to follow here to her dad's electronics tuition..."
NCS called me on friday night, telling me that she asked her whole class to join her in that class, but no one wanted to go. She said she even called Trevor, but Trevor was not free on that day. She asked me if i could accompany her to the class, because she does not want to go to the class alone. She had boyfriend that time, and it was strange for her to do this. I just pity to see her, lone girl, to go to places alone, and said that i can accompany her if she really need. I just took her as a friend, that's why i went with her.

"u see cafer...
are u trying to be nice or pretending to be nice????..."
I am trying to be friendly with her, and not too harsh with her.

"what is ur real intention by differentiating triny with HWL...
"
This is indirectly telling NCS that 'You, NCS, are not my cup of tea'.

"triny might be clumsy, noisy, loud, show off and uncouth to u.."
No, she was polite, gentle and held good manners to me. however, generally, she is clumsy to even knock herself while opening the door,[ http://experiencesze.blogspot.com/2008/12/knocked.html ]
How she is uncouth, you can see by how she do her day to day works, such as opening one door.

Erica Mitchel said...

cafer...
ur statement:
"It would be far too rude if a girl come to sit beside you and then asks you alot of things, while you keep your mouth shut. "

yes it is rude to shut ur mouth when some one is being friendly to u...
but by comparing triny with HWL in triny's own blog is that not rude???...
then what do u called this kind of action???....

ur statement:
"NCS called me on friday night, telling me that she asked her whole class to join her in that class, but no one wanted to go. She said she even called Trevor, but Trevor was not free on that day. She asked me if i could accompany her to the class, because she does not want to go to the class alone. She had boyfriend that time, and it was strange for her to do this. I just pity to see her, lone girl, to go to places alone, and said that i can accompany her if she really need. I just took her as a friend, that's why i went with her."

for ur information cafer...she was trying to be ur friend...rather than trying to create enemy she even said sorry to u on the way to the electronic tuition right...

ur statement :
"This is indirectly telling NCS that 'You, NCS, are not my cup of tea'."

so u prefer to write such a long essay about how different triny is compared to ur HWL n embarrassed her in her own blog rather than just stating ur statement "'You, NCS, are not my cup of tea'."...
by stating such long statement about triny does this make u a better person then her????...

and cafer...
u even read her blog just to purposely tell everybody that she is uncouth...

cafer...
plzzzz be a men and not a boy ok....

tRiNy~ said...

When i keep my mouth shut and do nothing doesnt mean i welcome you to climb over my head and step me like that.

these few days you've been sending me smses during MIDNIGHT. and even left a note "Sleep well" under my file when i was resting for next class with a friend.I THINK EVERY NIGHT CARFER IS LOOKING AT THE MIRROR LOOKING AT HIMSELF, AND PUTTING HIS FINGERS UNDER HIS CHIN TAPPING AND THIKING WHY TRINY LIKES ME AH.everyone wants to vomit hoh, i also.(i think so la. I told my bf and ike they laughed like mad)

since you THOUGHT i liked you, and you doesn't like me and always avoid and ignore me, then get out of my life la, why u remember all the things i do and even know i knocked my head when i open the door, wow, so updated man.You acted like a stalker that is all i can tell.

Stop that, because you are not my friend anymore and is irritating and annoying, so i do not care and will not reply to any of your sms no matter you trying to be nice(pretending), trying not to be too harsh, or whatever intention you have, You can continue, i will show my darling, and my friends who know you. But dont worry, i m not kinda gossip girl, i wont add salt and sugar, i will just show them raw evidence and keep my mouth shut.
***note: if anyone request for prove of the sms and the note he left when i was sleeping i will post it up.***

You like to be harsh, like to ignore me, talk bad about me in my blog or whatever it is, i just want to tell you whatever you said about me that i did i cant even remember and EVEN if i did, i just treated you as a friend that is all. You freak me out by remembering all those details like "99.999%"? omg i sound like carfer!

Since you've talk so much about me, why not elaborate more about your self here, since i don't mind you talk bad about me in my blog, and letting you express yourself here without deleting all your hard work, i also don't mind if you wanna share about yourself here. I believe people who read my blog or the comments here are interested to know about your lovelife,how successful are you in this field? also, since you are so smart and good in "physics, science and technologies", can you share how many A's you got in spm? How much is your cgpa and gpa? Is it between 3.5 to 4.0?

Stop being perasan that i like you which i never do. I told you many times and many people already declared but Again and again you still wanna think that way. And you said I'm not ur cup of tea? haha! I am Calvin's cup of tea that is all i care and oh yea, i am also interested in asking you a question, whose cup of tea are you?

CCFE said...

"also, since you are so smart and good in "physics, science and technologies", can you share how many A's you got in spm? How much is your cgpa and gpa? Is it between 3.5 to 4.0? ", Triny NCS.

I got 9 A for SPM, and my foundation school fees was waived.
i get A for:
English, A1
Chinese, A2
Physics, A1
Biology, A1
Chemistry, A1
Advanced Mathematics, A1
Mathematics, A1
History, A2
English for Science and Technology. A2

Average CGPA is 3.50 only, out of 4.


I was the representing the school in National General Knowledge competition (常识比赛)1999,2000;

won Third Prize for the Science Competition in 2003;

Won gold medal for product exhibition in Invention, Innovation and Technology EXhibition, ITEX 2009, representing the university.
ITEX was and is held by
Ministry of Science, Technology and Innovation,(MOSTI)Malaysia.

Won the first prize for product exhibition and competition in CITISIA 2009 (Conference on Innovative Technologies in Intelligent Systems & Industrial Applications) jointly held by UTAR, Monash University, UCSI and several more, including Sri Lankan University.


My contribution to the community and scientific world includes:
Sharing knowledge in my own page,
(Engineering, Science and Arts)
Menghuan4

Sharing knowledge in instructables
(Engineering, Science)

Active role in improving articles in wikipedia.
(Science, Linguistics, Engineering)

Active role in developing the Opensource Operating System Ubuntu.

CCFE said...

Love life?
The list of girls that made me know they liked me but being rejected by me.

- TanMM
- TeohKS
- LWXin

Yeah, i know it is not much, but try to ask other guys, how many girls were being rejected?